How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can a person develop advanced brain power?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do you allow your cat to lie in bed with you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

Why am I so tired of seeing homeless people all over the place?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do I want to give up on men?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

What is your experience about Bonamour Sleep Earbuds?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Procrastinates a lot.

What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).